Do you ever feel like an avalanche of obligations leaves you buried by the overwhelming chaos of life? Does life feel like an old house with hundreds of unfinished projects and no end – or fun – in sight?

Love Your Messy Life™ the book is a practical guide, to renovate the meh and irritation so you can come home to a body, a relationship…a life you love.

Do you ever feel like an avalanche of obligations leaves you buried by the overwhelming chaos of life? Does life feel like an old house with hundreds of unfinished projects and no end – or fun – in sight?

Love Your Messy Life™ the book is a practical guide, to renovate the meh and irritation so you can come home to a body, a relationship…a life you love.

Don’t want to wait for the book? Us either. For a limited time, you have access to 4 incredible resources designed to help you access peace as you begin the process of renovating where you feel stuck and reclaiming your freedom with the support of a community.

Get Your Exclusive Access to the Book Bonuses

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Exclusive LYML Workbook

A short-cut to renovating the stress, exhaustion, and agitation of everyday life. The Toolbox workbook provides specific practices to support greater well being and vitality day-by-day, moment-by-moment. ($25 Value)

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Exclusive LYML Workbook

A short-cut to renovating the stress, exhaustion, and agitation of everyday life. The Toolbox workbook provides specific practices to support greater well being and vitality day-by-day, moment-by-moment. ($25 Value)

The LYML Book Club

Receive a new chapter each week before anyone else! AND, join Heather & Tom live for eight exclusive video calls to interact with and learn behind the scenes lessons and content. ($800 Value)

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The LYML Book Club

Receive a new chapter each week before anyone else! AND, join Heather & Tom live for eight exclusive video calls to interact with and learn behind the scenes lessons and content. ($800 Value)

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Guided Audio Practices

Feel empowered on the go. Downloadable audio practices and meditations to support you in reclaiming peace and equanimity. ($15 Value)

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Guided Audio Practices

Feel empowered on the go. Downloadable audio practices and meditations to support you in reclaiming peace and equanimity. ($15 Value)

The LYML Private Community

Aha’s are useless without action. But, if you’re anything like us, action is a thousand times harder alone. Join us in a secret community designed just for you – the LYML reader, who is ready to implement the science of a life transformed. 

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The LYML Private Community

Aha’s are useless without action. But, if you’re anything like us, action is a thousand times harder alone. Join us in a secret community designed just for you – the LYML reader, who is ready to implement the science of a life transformed. 

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Defy the status quo &

live by purpose rather than fear

What if there’s an easier way to access the Love that’s already inside you by using methods and tools with which you’re familiar? In the Toolbox, you’ll learn how to use Common Sense, Laughter, and Introspection to communicate from a Balanced, Mindful, and Aware place that allows you to:

  • Live from your heart with love, trust, and peace instead of with jealousy, hatred, and all the things that fear sells

  • Have the resources and community to choose to show up and be supported

It’s time to reclaim your innate power, end victimhood, and create the joyous life you want to live.

Tom O’Keefe is a very funny man with a very big heart. He tells it like it is but never loses his humanity. Working with him is changing my life. I can’t wait to read the next book.”

Vincent M.

Meet the Toolbox Co-Authors: 
Hi, I’m Tom,

Have you ever done a home renovation, or seen one on TV? That used to be my life. I was a contractor in NY for over a decade. I’ve seen the mess and pain people go through as things change…the discomfort and the uncertainty of it all.

I’ve discovered the tools on the job of a construction site translate to the tools of life. And now I’m here to help you develop the skills to wield your hammer of anger, saw of freedom, level of equanimity to renovate your life, your home, with ease and grace.

And if you want more than just a construction guy, comedian and author’s opinion about renovating your life, don’t worry. Heather brings the science to this rehab.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks, Tom.

Hi, I’m Heather,

And, I’m the nerd in this duo. I love all things to do with the science of health and relationships – neuroscience, anatomy, sociology, physics, chemistry…If it can help my clients at the counseling center I run or help me deal with my own dysregulation, I’m ready to learn about it and even do the research for myself.

But, I’ve been feeling really frustrated lately. Unless you want to wade through dense research, there just aren’t resources for my clients to help them come home to themselves, especially when the stress hits the fan.

So, when my father fell ill, my toolbox master, it was time to marry the science and spirit of health with the practicality of real tools – screwdrivers of mindfulness, pliers of focus, and wrenches of leverage – to help you reclaim your power and your joy, even within the challenges of life.

Ready to play with renovating your life? Join us HERE.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can you tell me more about the book? What is it about?

Love Your Messy Life™: Practical Tools to Renovate Your Health, Wealth, and Relationships is effective and easy to use. Equal parts of science, spirit, and heart, you’ll learn to rewire your brain toward resilience while you tame the ‘not enough’ feelings that steal your joy.

Reclaim your innate power, end victimhood, and create the house you want to live in—financially, physically, and in relationships—60 seconds at a time. Your life will never be the same.

Coming 2020.

What exactly is the book club?

You will receive chapter(s) which we will then discuss in a secret video meeting. Together, you Tom and Heather will come together live to celebrate how these life-changing practices are already beginning to impact your life.

Over the eight exclusive video calls, you will receive the whole book and a whole lot of support as you begin your renovations.

How do the Pre-Order bonuses work?

When you preorder the book through midnight tonight, you can take advantage of our incredible LYML™ Pre-launch Bonus Package.

Here’s what it includes:

  • The comprehensive workbook filled with practices from the book. ($25 Value)

  • Audio recordings to reclaim equanimity. ($15 Value)

  • A book club with exclusive sneak-peek to the book 8 weeks before it’s released. ($800)

  • A community to support you in putting everything you’re learning into action. ($75 Value)

A book and ALL these bonuses for less than $10.

When will I receive the book?

The Kindle and Audible versions will land in your device 2020.

Physical books will begin mailing in 2020.

How soon do I have to order?

Right now! While the book will be available later, this preorder bonus offer ends soon, so don’t wait!

Here’s what to do:

  • Preorder the book HERE.

  • Fill out the form above to claim your bonuses.

  • Check your email for your bonuses and membership access.

What's the Price for all of this?

When you purchase the KINDLE version AND submit your order information ABOVE, you will receive:

  • The comprehensive workbook filled with practices from the book. ($25 Value)

  • Audio recordings to reclaim equanimity. ($15 Value)

  • A book club with exclusive sneak-peek to the book 8 weeks before it’s released. ($800)

  • A community to support you in putting everything you’re learning into action. ($75 Value)

A book and ALL these bonuses for less than $10.

If you’d rather listen to Tom and Heather read the book to you, AUDIBLE is an option to receive all the bonuses and the audiobook at less than $25.

Or, if you want to go old school and have a hardcover copy for less than $25 for a lifetime worth of resources in addition to these incredible bonuses.

We Can’t Wait for You to Join Us!

For the first time in my life I actually feel emotionally stable and able to observe feelings, thoughts and emotions and not allow them to dictate me and my behaviour. Heather’s insight, wisdom, intuition and ability to bridge neurobiology with everyday language and examples, together with practical tools that can be easily learnt and applied have been an absolute game changer from turning my life from turmoil to thriving.

Rachel Andrews

Love Your Messy LifeTM

 

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